Many years ago, I attended a conference on healing and deliverance and one of the things I saw is how the enemy uses a person’s past hurts to persuade them to harden their hearts.
The minister who spoke on the subject called people with hard hearts, “Tough cookies.”
We will cover the following in this article:
The Danger of a Hard Heart
Like a person who is injured physically and develops a scab at that place of hurt, so the same thing can happen to your heart.
The enemy can convince you that hardening your heart is necessary to protect you from further hurt.
If a person has a hard heart, they won’t believe God’s love.
Believing God’s love puts them in a position of vulnerability and humility, which scares them.
They also won’t receive God’s word because it can’t penetrate through a hard heart.
Or if it does, the Word won’t go very deep!
God’s word must be able to penetrate the heart and grow in order to produce the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (see Galatians 5:22-23).
Here is another sobering thought: A person can even try to minister to others from a hard heart!
But love won’t motivate their service.
They will serve out of legalism, duty, obligation, and drudgery. It is obvious they do not find joy in their service either.
The Cure for a Hard Heart
The Lord gave me this Word on the cure for a hard heart:
Unless you allow the Lord to heal your heart, you will never progress past the place of your wounding.”
The only thing I know that is strong enough to soften a hard heart is the blood of Jesus.
Here are some truths about Jesus that can help soften the hard heart – if the person will believe.
My prayer for a person suffering from a hard heart is below.
- Jesus suffered.
- Jesus was wounded.
- Jesus was abused.
- Jesus was battered.
- Jesus was rejected.
- Jesus was lied on and talked about.
- Jesus was insulted and verbally abused.
- Jesus had to endure poverty.
There is nothing that any of us has suffered that Jesus did not go through already.
Consider this: Jesus took on the sins of the whole world at the cross, from the beginning of time, all through the ages.
That means Jesus had to bear the sins of:
- Child molesters/Pedophiles
In fact, every perversion and evil that mankind has committed throughout history, Jesus bore it.
Nobody’s sin was left out.
Jesus had to take all the filthiness of sin on Him at the cross even though He never sinned.
Jesus did that to restore mankind’s relationship with the Father.
The Father had decreed the penalty for sin was death. Jesus paid the death price for all of us because He loved us that much.
Jesus has suffered as we have, but we have NOT suffered as He has!
Jesus died and took all that sin with Him into the grave. But praise God, Jesus gained the victory over sin, conquered death, and came up out of the grave!
He rose again on the third day so that we can have a new life in Him.
He did this because He loves us. Not because we are good but because He is good.
Neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord (see Romans 8:38-39).”
We who believe in our hearts and confess with our mouths that Jesus is the Son of God and was raised on the third day shall be saved because we trade our sin for His righteousness.
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
He gives us beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness so we may be the planting of the Lord and He may be glorified.
To summarize, a hard-hearted person is like an abandoned concrete lot.
Nothing much will grow there and what does grow is malnourished, weak, and sickly.
In order for anything to grow, the concrete must be broken up, the chunks removed, new soil brought in, and good seeds planted.
Prayer for the Hard Heart
My prayer for a hard-hearted person is from Ezekiel 36:26:
May my sister or brother receive a new heart and a new spirit within them; May the Lord take the heart of stone out of their flesh and give them a heart of flesh so that they may receive the full measure of the Father’s love for them.
I command any evil spirits deceiving them into thinking that a hard heart is necessary for their safety and protection to come up and come out in the name of Jesus.
The Lord is their rock and their fortress and their deliverer; My God, their strength, in whom they will trust; their shield and the horn of their salvation, their stronghold.
Spirits of shame, depression, anger, pride, woundedness, unforgiveness, fear, rejection, poverty, hurt and anything else in their souls and bodies that the Father did not plant, I uproot you through the power of our Father’s word in the name of Jesus!
Spirit of trauma, I command you to come out and loose them in the name of Jesus. They have been set free to grieve for their losses and to allow proper expression of them in their Savior’s loving arms. They are free to walk in freedom and to dance in praise to the Lord!
I see a new picture of them as dancing before the Lord, face radiant with joy, arms open wide rather than crossed, completely free to receive.
Let them declare according to Psalm 30:11-12:
“You have turned for me my mourning into dancing;
You have put off my sackcloth and clothed me with gladness,
To the end that my glory may sing praise to You and not be silent.
O Lord my God, I will give thanks to You forever.”
The Lord is glorified when His people are well-watered gardens, trees of righteousness, full of fruit.
His Word is good seed; his Holy Spirit is our water that brings times of refreshing in His presence.
As well-watered gardens with abundant fruit, others can come, taste and see that the Lord is good!
Be blessed in health, healing, and wholeness,
Author of the Take Back Your Temple program
P.S. When it comes to knowing the enemy’s devices against us, Christians can’t afford ignorance. Many times, he traps Christians in engaging in destructive behavior like overeating and binging, which can lead to emotional bondage.
If you have negative thoughts and habits that are keeping you in bondage, you must know how to overcome them to reach your best weight and fulfill your God-given purpose: