Eat Well

Making Christian Weight Loss Easier

Black-woman-with-fruit (1)Several months ago, a nice lady emailed me about her difficulty in losing weight. She mentioned that she had issues in turning to sweets whenever she was stressed.

In her message to me, she was beating herself up for her perceived lack of discipline.

She wrote, “Kim, right now I have some cookies in my cabinet and I’m tempted to go and eat them. Why doesn’t God give me the discipline to resist them?”

After assuring her that I too would struggle under similar circumstances, I shared with her a principle I live by, which comes from the martial arts:

“The best way to win a fight is to avoid getting into one in the first place.”

In her case, the best way to resist the cookies was to avoid bringing the cookies into the house in the first place.

Are you creating daily “fights” with yourself by surrounding yourself with food temptations? If so, you are making weight loss needlessly hard!

In setting yourself up for Christian weight loss success, you must create a healthy “safety zone” around yourself. The fact is, people do what people see.

If you don’t have healthy foods in your home, healthy snacks at the office for emergencies, or prepare before you visit restaurants, then you are pretty much at the mercy of whatever you see or smell.

Here are two tips to create a healthy safety zone around yourself and help yourself to Christian weight loss success:

1. Keep healthy foods available and within reach.


Be sure that you have plenty of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean protein in your home. One thing that helps me out is to batch cook on Saturdays. I cook vegetables, chicken breasts, oven-fry fish, bake sweet potatoes and freeze it all in smaller containers. That way, when I’m busy during the week, I can just take something out of the freezer and maybe add a side item for a quick meal.

This allows me to reach for food that satisfies me from the inside/out rather than surrounding myself with foods that just satisfy my tongue.

Another tip is to keep a fruit bowl on the counter or dining room table. Keeping it within sight and reach makes it more likely you will eat it. Whenever possible, avoid bringing the high fat, high sugar items into your home.

But if you must, make sure it is the smallest possible box or bag you can get. The principle is, if you can’t (or don’t want to) avoid the temptation, then minimize the damage by practicing wise portion control.


2. Be prepared whenever you eat away from home.

While it is true that some fast food restaurants are offering healthy items on their menus today, most menu items are still either fatty, salty, sugary, or a combination of the three.

Be honest: If you go into Burger King and smell the hamburgers and fries, how likely is it that you will order a salad? You don’t want to lead yourself into temptation.

However if you must go to a fast food restaurant, then I recommend that you check out the establishment’s Web site beforehand. Usually, they will post the menu and provide nutritional statistics on the items they offer. You can decide ahead of time what you will have. Then, go to the drive thru to get it. That way, you won’t be tempted by the smells of the unhealthy stuff.

At work, keep a water bottle or jug on your desk that you sip on throughout the day. Many times, we eat food when our body is really crying for water.

Also, keep a few snacks with you so you aren’t at the mercy of the vending machines. Apples, oranges, small packs of raisins, almonds, pretzels, air-popped popcorn with parmesan cheese, or low sodium tomato soup or vegetable soup are some examples of food you can keep with you for emergencies.

Proper planning is good for your health and your waistline.

Kimberly Taylor
Author/Christian Life Coach of the ‘Take Back Your Temple’ program
https://takebackyourtemple.com/program

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Sugar Addiction: Breaking Free for Good

Do you have intense cravings for sugar that you difficulty controlling often?

I’m going to cover seven spiritual and natural secrets for overcoming this addiction in this article.

But first, let me give you some background.

When you eat sugar, you raise two neurotransmitters in your brain: serotonin and dopamine.

Both of these neurotransmitters influence your mood and give you a sense of calm, well-being, comfort, and just generally make you feel good. This is why many people crave sugar when they are emotionally upset.

However, your blood sugar levels spike too high when you eat sugar and your body has to release the hormone insulin to bring the blood sugar back into balance.

If too much insulin is released, your blood sugar crashes, leaving you tired, irritable, moody, and brain fogged.

For many people, this sets off a daily cycle of blood sugar spikes and crashes as they consume more and more sugar to try to restore those initial feelings of calm and comfort – but it never lasts.

To break free of sugar addiction for good, you first need to address its spiritual and emotional aspects, then its physical aspects. Here are seven ways to do this.

1. Go Back to the Beginning. For many of us, our attachment to sugar goes back to childhood. In my own situation, I learned to associate sugar with comfort.

My mother worked a lot as a single mom and before she would leave me with the sitter, she always gave me candy money so I could walk to the convenience store around the corner to get a treat. Now, I missed my mother and I was lonely, but the only comfort I had as a child was the candy.

Eating the candy made me feel better.

Unfortunately, that pattern continued as an adult. Whenever I felt emotionally stressed or upset, I craved candy and other sweets, never realizing that I was coping the same way I did when I was five.

Take a moment to think about your own sugar addiction history. When did sugar become a coping method for you?

Chances are, it was during periods of stress or emotional distress.

2. Re-think your coping choices. The bible says in 1 Corinthians 13:11: “When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.”

Remember that a child does not have many options when they experience emotional pain, but adults do.

Have compassion on the child/person you used to be but recognize that your way of coping then does not fit you now.

3. Ask God for help. Attempting to deal with emotional pain with food, sugar, sex, drugs or other addiction is like trying to fill a hole that does not have a bottom. No matter what you put into that hole, it will never be enough.

The only thing that is big enough to fill the hole is God.

Strengthen your relationship with him through prayer, praise, worship, and bible study. Ask him to reveal and heal any sources of emotional pain you have and receive that healing by faith.

4. Add more whole foods to your life. Eat high fiber fruits like apples, pears, and oranges to satisfy your sweet tooth without the sugar rush.

Eating reasonable servings of sweet potatoes, brown rice and whole grain pasta also help keep your blood sugar stable and increases the body’s natural production of serotonin.

Eat plenty of green leafy vegetables and other colorful vegetables to replenish B and C vitamins in your body; these vitamins help your body convert food into energy, but eating large amounts of sugar depletes them.

Eating lean sources of protein like chicken, fish, turkey, beans, and low-fat dairy products (in moderation) will also help to curb hunger and cravings.

5. Limit the sugar in your life. If you are sensitive to sugar, change your diet to limit your exposure to it. Otherwise, it becomes a case of “the more you get, the more you want.”

Learn to read labels. A good guideline is to replace any prepared food or drink that has more than 10 grams of sugar per serving with one that has less sugar.

Sugar goes by many names besides the obvious ones (those with sugar or syrup in the name) such as dextrose, fructose, glucose, galactose, sucrose, maltodextrin, barley malt, and molasses. If one of these names for sugar is one of the first three ingredients on the label, replace it with something else.

Also, limit your intake of fruit juice to less than 1/2 cup – fruit juice also raises your blood sugar quickly.

Limit your intake of artificially sweetened drinks too, because they can keep your taste for sugar alive.

Lastly, limit foods made with white flour and white rice because the body breaks them down quickly and reacts to them in a similar way as to eating sugar.

6. Make your own feel-good chemicals. I mentioned earlier that eating sugar increases chemicals in your brain that make you feel good. There are other natural things you can do that have the same effect:

* Exercise. If sugar addiction is a problem for you, I recommend that you exercise for a minimum of 30 minutes most days of the week to make some endorphins.

If you aren’t exercising at all now, start with 10 minutes a day and work up.

But here is a tip: When you are exercising, grin – show your teeth. When you smile, you send an “all is well” signal to your brain and it releases even more “feel good” chemicals. Also, when you give a wide smile, your mouth is open slightly, which increases your oxygen intake when you exercise, making it easier do.

So smile when exercising. I dare you to put it to the test and see.

* Sunshine. Sunshine also increase the body’s production of endorphins also, so get about 15-20 minutes of sunshine exposure a day if you can.

* Hugs. Hug others as much as you can. If you don’t have anybody to hug, then hug yourself. The more hugs, the better. If you are married then have sex often. This releases feel-good chemicals as well.

* Laughter. Get a clean joke book or watch a comedy program and make yourself laugh several times a day.

* Uplifting music. In the Bible, David used music to calm King Saul whenever a distressing spirit came upon him. In similar fashion, listen to music that emotionally moves and soothes you, like beautiful classical music or praise and worship music a few times a day.

7. Find your joy. The bottom line is that you cannot have true peace or joy as long as an addiction controls you.

Ask yourself: is food or sugar one of the few sources of joy or pleasure that you allow yourself?

If that is the case, you can bring your life into balance. Take the time to think of other things you can add that bring you pleasure so that these activities are restored to a healthy place in your life.

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